Secret of success
For Parents and their Children
For the parents
Health problems for the teen ages; your children
For the guys and girls
Problems for the college going guys or girls in their studies
For a student with this questions; Show this page to your parents.
Why I am not implementing my plans?
For a mother
Why your son is not listening to you?
For a teen age guy or a girl
Why your body is not following your commands?
Teen age:
Teen and twenties are important in life…
In this age lot of changes will happen in the body.
Brain will start thinking about the reasons for the changes.
Body will start enjoying the changes.
Society will push lot of advices in this age.
Body changes:
Every body knows the changes in the body…
For a boy
Mustache and bearded will start to grow…
They get to know about sex through sex education…
They will feel the changes in their body…
For a girl:
Dramatic change in the body and its stage…
Hormonal changes will happen…
Mind change:
For a boy:
Boy will dare to do any thing…
He will never mind the advices of parents…
For a girl:
Girl will be careful always.
She will listen to the advices.
Society:
For a boy or a girl:
1. Parents
2. Neighbors
3. friends
4. Teachers.
Depending up on the background and society a boy or a girl knows his work/duty to do. He or she knows they have to be educated well. But parents should understand not only a degree and getting through it is an education. If a student is not performing well in class and exams, it is not because he or she dint read the text but also they lost their interest to do it. They may have mental or physical problems. Their concentration is disturbed by some thing which attracting them better than their subject. There is some thing which is more important for them than their studies and even their future.
Physical problems are again a mental retardation. A sound body is a sound mind.
I appreciate the parents who are allowing their children to play in ground, taking their children to swimming pool and allowing them to undergo some physical education course like karate and things like this…But there are lots of parameter affecting your children.
For a boy or a girl now a day:
1. Attraction towards opposite sex …
2. Smoking, Drinking and drugs…
3. Spending more time I entertainment…
4. Not respecting their parents and teachers…
Attraction towards opposite sex is a natural, but when parents and teachers are advising, a boy or a girl will take it as those things or wrong. Since they can’t avoid the natural change in their body and mind and when they try to expose it. They will be afraid first. Then this will grow I their mind and when they attain a stage where they can’t control it, they will do it but very secretly…
The different ways children used to express this:
They will try to speak to an opposite sex.
They will fall in affection with a girl.
They will mistake the affection as love.
If their proposal is accepted by a girl, they will feel happy.
If it is not, then they will try to forget it by drinking, smoking etc.
Some times suicide attempt also.
The reason for this is not only attraction towards opposite sex but also the need of love with others, because they grew in love. When they had born, their mother loved them. They never missed their mother’s hug. Their father and others kissed them in the age of one and two. After that when they started schooling, they know nothing. There they are controlled by the teachers, also asked to do home works. Most of the children don’t like it. They love to play, but when they are forced to do their works, with out interest they are doing that. This continues till the end of their schooling. At this age they started fearing on their own father and mother. But they have to depend on their parents for every thing like snakes, toys, dress and all others. This will make their mind think about an escape from their school days and collage; means they want to finish it and go for a job. They will think hard to secure high marks, but even their trials will not be successful because of their health condition.
The different types of physical problems:
They will be tired soon when they listen to class.
They will feel drowsy when they sit to read.
They will feel boring while hearing the advices.
They will not be active when writing their exams.
They will have less care when checking their mistakes in the exam paper.
The reasons for this are:
Sleeping is less.
No proper food habits.
Sitting before television for long time.
Bathing for less time.
Tips for the parents to avoid these types of behavior of their children:
Don’ts:
Don’t scold your children for not sleeping or watching TV.
Don’t complaints on these things with their teachers.
Don’t put rules to take their book and read.
Don’t compare with bright students.
Don’t discuss between you (Mr and Mrs) about your children before them.
Instead try this (Do’s):
Mental treatment:
Show some care on their health through some mental strengthening ways like telling them you love them the most.
Speak with them about their friends, play with them.
Physical treatment:
Try to understand their physical problems with out asking them directly, but by moving with them.
Don’t tell them directly they have problems, don’t give them medicines which they don’t like.
Give some medicine through their food.
Physical Problems:
No freshness in the morning.
Always feeling tired.
Heat in their body.
Clear less eye vision.
Breathing problem.
Digestion Problem.
If they din’t slept well, their body heat will raise. This will disturb their sexual organs and they will be disturbed again by the thoughts following that. It will not make them wake up in the morning with freshness. The body heat will not make them enjoy their food. It will not allow their body to take the nutrients from the food. Soon their eyes are getting affected. They are getting brain tiredness also. This will lead to giddiness in they body; this is a problem because of nerve weakness.
Please take care of your children hence strengthen your generation of the future which will emboss you as a historically successful heroes.
- Auden
Hello Parents,
All the children are given with same abilities but why their performance is differing? This is the question raised in my life. Because I was a below average student when I was doing my studies. My parents do not understand me; instead they did all the mistakes I mentioned. I myself learnt these things from other families and with self interest I am writing this to you.
Tips for physical exercise:
When your children are growing their stomach should not be empty.
When their growth is stopped they have to give gap in having food.
They should avoid having more junk food, but they can enjoy nutritive food.
They have to take of lot of liquid food.
They have to play daily in a particular time.
They have to take food in same time daily.
The have to take a rest of eight hours minimum when they are growing and
Six hours is enough after growth is stopped.
They should not sleep afternoon after food.
Taking rest for twenty minutes in the afternoon is good.
Attraction toward opposite sex is possible in two ways:
First way:
If they are healthy and strong, this will happen because of hormonal change. This can be avoided by maturity. Parents should treat their children in the age of eighteen as a friend.
Second way:
If they are weak, this will happen because they will expect a care more than their parent.
Diagnosis through figures:
See their fingers; if those are weak then your child heart is weak. Mental Problems leads to a weakness in their heart. This will turn to a problem in blood circulation. Your child body is lacking iron. You can give him Dates or you can give iron tablets given in government hospitals.
Tiredness:
Some are affected by unwanted tiredness; their body lacks vitamin D. They have to show their Back to sun to get vitamin D in their body or you can give Fish Cod liver oil tablet which is rich in Vitamin D.
Simple home made medicines:
1. Gas trouble:
Require items:
Dry ginger
Milk
Sugar
Procedure:
Remove the skin of the dry ginger and put it in 250 ml of water.
Boil it until it becomes 125 ml; means exact half.
Add milk and sugar.
Time for having:
Morning before food.
Evening instead of tea.
2. Heat type body:
Required items:
Leaves of lemon tree.
Butter Milk.
Procedure:
Put the leaves of lemon tree in the butter milk in the morning.
Time for having:
Along with lunch you have the butter milk with rice or drink it; remove the leaves.
3. Head ache:
Procedure:
Heat the turmeric peaces and inhale the air to be relieved from head ache.
I will keep on adding when I get good medicines…….
Food as medicines:
In olden days; our fore fathers followed this approach. They were very healthy and strong enough. They neither took any medicines nor supplements. They never had milk mix. But they were happy, healthy and strong. Diseases are away from them. They were hard workers. The secret of this is behind the gift of our land and our body from the creator. Our land according to the climate, water and sand; it will produce food base which suitable for a healthy life. Our body is also capable of producing medicine from this food content according to the climate and water.
According to them green leaves are good food also very good medicines.
If you know any thing please mail ( audenbovasfranco.a@gmail.com) it to me. I will put it in this site.